You're probably reading this because you desperately want to get your ex back. Whether nothing you've tried has worked - begging, crying, ranting, stalking, what have you. Or maybe you're wise sufficient to know that those don't work.
So when everything you've tried has failed and all your ideas fall short... What do you do?
Do It Yourself
It might be time to take one of the most drastic, decisive steps of your life - changing yourself.
Now, "changing yourself" doesn't mean you come to be your ex's puppet, or his fantasies personified. What you need to do is much more specific - analyze your previous connection carefully, and frame out the causes behind each fight you can remember. Pay close attentiveness to where you went wrong - you might be shocked at how the same factors that led to the breakup make your life miserable in hundreds of other ways.
Once you've made this list, think about what you can do to solve those problems. Do you need more patience, less stress, more attentiveness or less fussing? If your ex has problems, frame out how you will cope them - will you leave them alone to frame them out, refer them to a therapist, or let them talk things out with you? Don't expect them to turn more than they already have in the past - increased expectations will only make you more vulnerable to disappointment. Keep working on the tiny things that led to recurrent squabbles - you'll soon find that the larger problems are melting away.
Spend at least a week implementing the solutions for these problems in your own life. By the time you advent your ex, the changes you've made will be definite in your very speech and manner. The best part of this is that you're doing a lot of things to make Yourself happier. A happy man is all the time exciting to others, so you have a fair opening of looking love with your ex - once again.
How to Get Your Ex Back - Changing Yourself to Get Your Ex Back
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